| Why do we stop and start in reaching our goals? | | | | All of a sudden we experience a set-back or |
| So many people achieve their momentum and a | | | | failure. It is not advisable to go back and re-do |
| crisis in life stops our momentum. It is almost | | | | what we have created; it is time to "adjust" and |
| impossible to get started again and re-gain our | | | | create an alternative plan or action step or the |
| momentum. | | | | method of implementation. Unfortunately many |
| Gaining momentum in our lives runs into difficulty | | | | people just give up and say something like "well, |
| when we run hot and then run cold. Let me | | | | that did not work" and throw the project out the |
| explain it this way. I was reading an illustration on | | | | window. |
| "not stopping" in our efforts in reaching our goals | | | | No one had a greater commitment and staying |
| and it involved water. | | | | motivated to a walking exercise program than I. |
| If you want to boil water you will do three things: | | | | My father died and my world shut down. My |
| 1) put the water in a kettle; | | | | motivation and commitment disappeared. My |
| 2) put the kettle on a stove; | | | | energy evaporated. After a few months a friend |
| 3) and then turn the heat on. | | | | told me that my past walking program is "out of |
| If the heat is turned off, even for an instant, the | | | | the window" so I had to create new ways of |
| water will not boil, even though the heat is turned | | | | walking so that I would look forward to a new |
| on again later. If one continues to turn the heat | | | | adventure in my life. Upon research, I discovered |
| on and off the fact remains that the water will | | | | there are 22 different walking styles to choose. |
| never boil. | | | | My kettle of boiling water had been turned off so |
| To relate this to real life when we want to | | | | I had to get a fresh kettle of water and heat it |
| achieve a goal we: | | | | up; which is what I did. With making a few |
| 1) create our business plan; | | | | adjustment and adding new ways of walking, my |
| 2) plan our action steps; and | | | | commitment, motivation and enjoyment came |
| 3) and then implement. | | | | back. |